Falling in love is a dangerous feeling. It can make us do weird things that we never thought of or were geared towards doing before. It can change our whole perspective on the world, which in turn can make the world seem that much better or that much worse. It can make our lives seem like we are in total bliss or total chaos. However it makes us feel, it is something that most of us covet and want to hang on to for as long as we supposedly have it.
Being in love is weird. It is not something that we all experience or have control of when it is dangled throughout our beings. It is a positive emotion you can’t describe, but hope that it doesn’t lead you into a state of despair. It is an emotion you want to shout at the top of your lungs, but have no words to describe exactly how you feel. Love is spectacular when it happens to us and it is feeling that we hope everyone can enjoy or experience, but not all love turns out to be well received.
Love is an emotion that cannot be defined. Not everyone experiences it the same and no one seems to react to it the same either. For how exceptionally great it is, it is just as bad. Love can be cruel and painful, unforgivably so.
Not all of us can choose who it is that we fall in love with, even though we can get really close to ideal. Sometimes we fall in love with people who are unavailable, out of our reach or totally off limits. Sometimes we fall in love with people who are completely no good for our lives, but because of how our emotions are flowing are too blind to see. Other times we get to choose who we love and are able to make well educated decisions that help put our lives into a light that we are totally willing to go in. We are able to see past our feelings and are able to experience our relationship on a totally controllable level that we can be proud of.
Not all love leads to having the perfect relationships though. Just because you are in love with a person doesn’t mean that you have to be stuck to that person forever. Some like to believe that once you find the person you love, you do whatever it takes to keep that person in your life, even if it destroys yours. This disastrous effect almost makes people crazy or incoherent to all of the normal functions of life.
Most of the time there is no logic behind love and some of us try to float on that feeling for as long as it is possible, while they have it. Some of us try desperately to make it lasts, even when the cons outweigh the pros. We can suffer from love as much as we can find pleasure in it.
When we find that one, our whole world goes chaotic, even though we are going through positive feelings through our being. We start changing our patterns and our beings. We start scrutinizing over things that didn’t matter to us, while hoping that we are being the best that we can be in the situations that we are in. Some of us end up missing things because our minds aren’t completely sound to be able to take in everything that our environments are feeding us. Whatever our feelings and reactions are, we all become different when we are going through the roller coaster that is love.
Who is to say that love doesn’t last forever? Maybe the ones who have experienced it, but lost it or the ones that have never been lucky enough to experience it, maybe they will say that love doesn’t exist. Whatever our point of view on this matter is, people all over the world feel irrational emotion towards certain individuals or things that cannot be explained with complete logic or science. Maybe that is love, maybe it is not.
Love will always be one of our greatest adversaries and greatest foes. It will continue to make us irrational and completely sane. It will give us strengths, as well as being one of our greatest weaknesses. Love will continue to be out there to grasp, for us to try to hold onto for as long as we can, while we try to experience everything else that is in our lives. Love will continue to prosper or fain from our hearts, always quite the desire, but never quite the pleasure. Love is universal, but it doesn’t mean that everyone sees it the way that we do.